All About a Lady/All About a Man: Heartfelt Resources at Your Fingertips
So many people think my work is all about professional business portraits. But you’d be surprised (or perhaps not) at how many clients come to me for help with ‘getting down to business’ on their personal portraits too.
I’m talking about online dating! Many people want to know how to create the most authentic (and not cheesy) images possible! And that is something I am happy to help with!
I know far too many people with great personalities and not enough great images to match. In a world where your first impression is everything, what’s it worth to make it count for everything?
But it’s not enough just to look good for your photo shoot - if you don’t maintain the attractive and appealing “You” that showed up to the session, we haven’t fully done our job.
That’s why I’ve created two unique and ongoing “evolutionary blogs” I’m calling All About a Lady and All About a Man.
This way I can share some timely and helpful advice with clients and fans alike on how to really leverage your Executive (and Intimate) Presence in a number of different ways, from personal style to mindset. We’ve also made it convenient for you access the resources suggested therein in order to get started!
To kick this series off, I thought I’d get right to the “heart” of matters: Matters of the Heart:
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Ever wonder why it seems so difficult to connect with your romantic partners? Or perhaps articulate your wants, needs or standards in an empowered way?
These two books I just recently finished offer both inspiring and edgy advice to successful women eager to be successful at Love, (but who may not have quite figured it all out yet). They have both had a profound impact on my communication with others.
Another resource I highly recommend is the YouTube channel of love guru Matthew Hussey, bestselling author of Get the Guy: Learn Secrets of the Male Mind to Find the Man You Want and the Love You Deserve and Cosmopolitan columnist. I have personally invested in his coaching sessions and have found his understanding of human interaction and communication to be phenomenal - especially for single ladies who know they’re fabulous but have trouble expressing it powerfully to the opposite sex (and sometimes to themselves).
Choose from over 300 free videos on every conceivable subject concerning dating and dealing with men. Here are a few of my favorites:
It doesn’t hurt, Ladies, that Matthew has the hunky look of a guy who just stepped out of the pages of GQ, Casual Edition. Oh, and that British accent - *sigh*
3 Successful dating profile photos for the Ladies
Ladies, your profile pic is the last chance to make a first impression, so do it right! Here’s three quick tips to polish it to the max.
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While the books recommended to the Ladies also have valuable information for the Men, sometimes you want someone talking right to you, fellas.
And we all know the Men love to click-to-play, so here’s their own YouTube expert, Kezia Noble. Known as the Celebrity Dating Coach for Men (also as the Bitch With a Heart, which she wears proudly!), Kezia’s channel is also packed, with almost 200 free videos. She offers tips on everything from how to flirt to how to read the signals that say “Go!” or “Stay!” to secrets revealed by Wing Girls, often spiced up by interviews with actual guys struggling to survive the dating jungle.
And as with Matthew Hussey, it doesn’t hurt that Kezia offers a lot of eye candy - also with a London accent! What is it about those Brits?!
3 Successful dating profile photos or the Men:
Men, how can I be tactful about this?? When choosing photos for your profile - KEEP YOUR AUDIENCE IN MIND. Women want a Prince, not a frog.
Pictures of you petting a tiger are *interesting* but don’t really share much about You, which is what the Right Woman is interested in. This applies to many photos of you doing Sports - it’s nice to see you’re active, but doesn’t tell more more than that.
For Ladies and Men
If you’re curious about how your current online dating profile photos are landing, sign up for a complimentary Clarity Call with me! I’d be happy to spend 15 minutes with you to uncover your goals and desires for your dating future. Until then, always stay in action! The perfect partner is out there looking for you, too!
Celebrity Photographer and New York’s go-to-girl for a one of a kind, photo-shoot experience, Amber De Vos is a respected and committed member of the professional photography community. Amber’s event work has been featured in countless media publications including People, Women’s Wear Daily, Vanity Fair and Vogue and she is a sought after expert on the New York social scene. For her portrait work, Amber uses her signature celebrity style and professional savoir faire to capture the true essence of executives, entrepreneurs and IT Girls (and Guys) who realize the value of investing in a comprehensive professional portrait session to take them to the next level.
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